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YOUTH GROUP DISCUSSION STARTERS
- 1. Do you have
a hero? Describe him or her.
- 2. Imagine a "best
day ever." What kinds of things would you do?
- 3. If you could
choose a holiday location anywhere in the world, where would it be, and why?
- 4. What's your
favourite TV show? What do you like best about it?
- 5. What's your
favourite movie? What do you like best about it?
- 6. Who's your
favourite music artist or group? What makes you gravitate to him/her/them?
- 7. What's your
favourite time of year–winter, spring, summer, or autumn? Why?
- 8. What's your
favourite food? Where's your favourite place to eat it?
- 9. Do you have
a pet? If so, describe one of your most memorable experiences with that pet.
If not, what kind of pet would you like to have, and why?
- 10. Who's your
favourite author? Describe the last book you read by that author.
- 11. What's your
dream job? What might be your dream job 10 years from now?
- 12. What's your
best subject in school? Why are you so good at it?
- 13. Have you ever
been stung by a bee, wasp, or hornet? Tell me about it.
- 14. If you had
to be allergic to something, what would it be?
- 15. What's your
favourite sport to watch? to play?
- 16. What's your
favourite hobby? How does that hobby reflect your personality and passions?
- 17. If you sat
down next to Jesus on a bus, what would you talk about?
- 18. Do you recycle?
Why or why not?
- 19. Tell me about
the best teacher you ever had.
- 20. What's your
favourite time of day? Why?
- 21. What's your
favourite dessert? Describe a time when you had that dessert as a child.
- 22. What makes
you happy? Why?
- 23. What makes
you sad? Why?
- 24. If money and
time were no object, what would you be doing right now?
- 25. What do you
like best: rivers, lakes, ponds, or streams? Why?
- 26. Have you ever
been camping? If so, tell us about it. If not, would you like to? Why or why
not?
- 27. Do you like
to cook? If so, what do you like to make? If not, what do you wish you could
make for yourself?
- 28. What's the
strangest thing you ever ate?
- 29. What chores
or responsibilities do you have at home?
- 30. Do you get
an allowance? If so, how much, and what are you supposed to use it for?
- 31. When and how
have you volunteered to help others? How did it make you feel?
- 32. What would
you do with £1,000? Why? or... £1 million? Why?
- 33. What's something
you've seen or done you wish you could get out of your mind?
- 34. If you had
one day to live over again, what day would you pick? Why?
- 35. What adult,
other than your parent(s), would you turn to if you needed help? Why?
- 36. Do you have
any musical ability? If so, what do you enjoy about it? If not, what skill
would you love to learn?
- 37. What's your
favourite Web site? Why?
- 38. Have you ever
built anything? What was it? How did you feel when you finished?
- 39. When and what
have you collected during your life?
- 40. If your house
was on fire and you could choose only one thing to save (besides family members),
what would it be? Why?
- 41. Have you ever
seen a falling star? Did you make a wish? What was it?
- 42. Have you ever
seen a sunrise? What were you doing, and how did it feel?
- 43. Which do you
like better–sunrise or sunset? Why?
- 44. What's your
favourite ride at an amusement park? Why?
- 45. Do you have
a bike? If so, what do you like about it?
- 46. What's your
favourite part of a newspaper? Why?
- 47. Have you ever
received an award for anything? If so, what was it, and how did it feel to
get it?
- 48. Do you belong
to any clubs? Why or why not?
- 49. Are your grandparents
still living? If so, what do you like best about them? If not, what's your
favourite memory of them?
- 50. Let's say
you were sent to live on a space station for three months and you were allowed
to bring only three personal items with you–what would they be?
- 51. Do you have
brothers or sisters? If so, what do you like most and least about them? If
not, what do you imagine would be the best thing about having siblings? the
worst thing?
- 52. Do you have
extended family? If so, do they live close to you or far away? How often do
you see them? What's the best time you ever spent with them? 53. What's the
best and worst thing about your school?
- 54. What's your
school mascot? If you could change your mascot, what would you change it to?
- 55. What's your
favourite thing to wear? Why?
- 56. Do you have
family rules? What are they?
- 57. When your
family eats a meal together, what do you typically talk about?
- 58. If you could
buy a car right now, what would you buy? Why?
- 59. Do you have
a job? If so, what do you like and dislike about it?
- 60. What's your
favourite day of the week? Why?
- 61. Have you ever
grown anything? If so, what?
- 62. Describe your
favourite toy as a child.
- 63. What's your
favourite fast food restaurant? Why? What's the most memorable thing that
ever happened to you at that restaurant?
- 64. What's the
best gift you've ever received? Explain.
- 65. What's the
best gift you've ever given? Explain.
- 66. How does your
family celebrate birthdays?
- 67. What's your
favourite holiday? Why?
- 68. Describe a
time you felt special.
- 69. What makes
you laugh? Why?
- 70. What's the
worst injury you ever sustained?
- 71. Would you
rather go to the dentist or the doctor? Explain.
- 72. What's your
favourite piece of jewellery? Why?
- 73. Have you ever
been in a play? What part did you play?
- 74. Can you swim?
If so, describe what it was like to learn how to swim. If not, have you ever
been scared of the water? Why or why not?
- 75. Have you ever
ridden in a boat? What was it like?
- 76. If you've
ever flown in an airplane, describe what it was like the first time you took
off and landed.
- 77. What's the
best and worst thing about church?
- 78. Do you think
most churches respect young people?
- 79. What's the
best and worst thing about Rave in the Nave?
- 80. What's the
best and worst thing about this youth group?